In six weeks Scotland will vote on independence.
Belatedly people in England are waking up to the prospect of a diminished United Kingdom.
I've spent a substantial part of my life in Scotland. My family moved there in 1969, when I was ten. I went to school in St Andrews, followed by university in Aberdeen.
My wife is from Glasgow and for six years after we got married we lived in Edinburgh (where my children were born).
Today Clare is one of 750,000 people born in Scotland who live in England. She's against independence and is annoyed she doesn't have a vote.
But something else annoys her.
A lot of people in England couldn't care less about Scottish independence.
A couple of months ago the local television news interviewed an ad hoc group of people in Norfolk and the attitude was, "Let the Scots do as they like, it makes no difference to us."
Clare wasn't impressed.
I made the point that we English are in an impossible position. If we take part in the debate we're accused of telling the Scots what to do. If we say nothing or are apathetic we're accused of "not caring".
So I was interested when it was announced this week that historians Dan Snow and Tom Holland (both English) have written an open letter to the "Voters of Scotland" urging them to vote "No" in the referendum.
Most of the celebrities who have signed it are English too and, inevitably, the cybernats have ripped into them on social media.
But I think Snow and Holland are on to something.
Yes, some Scots will consider the campaign to be patronising and intrusive but I think it will appeal to a great many more – people like my wife, in fact, because I'm pretty sure her views represent mainstream Scottish opinion not the bellicose mob on Twitter.
Which brings me on to something else, which is kind of related.
When I was a small boy foreign holidays – for the masses, at least – were in their infancy. In any case, my parents wanted us to to discover our own country before we went further afield.
Family holidays abroad were therefore put on hold until we'd visited Cornwall, Pembrokeshire, Suffolk, the Shetland Isles and the Highlands.
I later visited Orkney, Skye, Lewis and the Outer Hebrides and if I had my way I'd jump in my car now and spend the rest of the month travelling around Scotland and the Western Isles.
Sadly however there's a vast number of people in England who have never been to Scotland, not even for a weekend.
I don't understand it.
I appreciate that some people want guaranteed sun, or something a little more exotic and 'different' for their annual holiday.
But it seems incredible to me that not once in their lives have they said, "Fancy going to Scotland?"
Edinburgh is a one hour flight from London. Alternatively it's five hours by train.
With the aid of a good book the journey passes in a flash and from Northumberland onwards you can enjoy some great views of the sea as the train rattles past Berwick-upon-Tweed and Dunbar.
Arriving in Edinburgh by train is always a thrill. Emerge from Waverley Station and there, right above you, is the castle. Magnificent.
Driving to Edinburgh (or Glasgow) from London takes six or seven hours. The road north of Carlisle – past Gretna Green and Lockerbie – is now a three-lane motorway but swing off at Junction 13 and you can enjoy a scenic 60-minute drive before arriving in Scotland's capital city.
Even better is the wonderful A68 that takes you to Edinburgh via Northumberland National Park and Jedburgh in the Borders. It will add an hour or two to your journey but if you've got the time it's well worth it.
What I love most about Scotland though is the sense of freedom you get when you leave Edinburgh and Glasgow behind.
Partly it's the absence of heavy traffic. This is especially true of the M90 to Perth and Dundee. Driving across the Forth Bridge into Fife I feel as if a weight is being lifted from my shoulders.
You might think differently if you get stuck behind a caravan on the A82 that takes you out of Glasgow and past Loch Lomond, but don't let that put you off.
The west coast of Scotland is as good as anything Ireland has to offer, and you can visit some beautiful islands with the bonus of a ferry or two to get there.
What Scotland lacks in picturesque villages it makes up for in beautiful scenery. Sure, the weather can be terrible but take the risk. Odds are you'll get away with it.
I haven't got time to list all my favourite places but no-one visiting St Andrews, Ullapool or Applecross will be disappointed.
What I'm trying to say is, if you're English and you support the union you have to visit Scotland (and Wales, and Northern Ireland) at least once.
It would be rude not to.